Porn addiction, Prostate Issues, and Treating Sexual Dysfunction in Men Including Premature Ejaculation...Category: General   Apr 25th 2017  11:01PM   0

By Tantric Companion Ana Melissa

Sexual Dysfunction in Men-

I’ve seen first hand the negative effects of ejaculating too frequently. As a Tantra Teacher men of all ages often came to see me due to sexual dysfunction of various kinds. Sometimes this can be caused by health problems or medications or emotional and psychological issues like shyness. However, masturbating frequently to porn and or ejaculating too frequently was almost always a main factor in the sexual dysfunctions i saw as a tantrica. Ejaculation and porn can both be very addictive and in our fast paced world many men use these things for stress relief on a daily basis, sometimes many times a day. While i do recommend self pleasuring regularly even daily i believe breaking the addiction to porn and ejaculating frequently can be an important part of experiencing more pleasure and vitality in the long-run.

Prostate Issues-

Frequently as men get older and have a habit or ejaculating frequently they end up with prostate problems. Worse case scenario this leads to surgery and removal of their prostate which makes them unable to ejaculate. Anecdotally,  i have been told by TJ Bartell, one of the main teachers for The Source School of Tantra that through learning and practicing tantric sexual practices many men have been able to turn around a diagnosis of prostate cancer. Taoist practices use sexual life force energy to build health, vitality, and longevity rather than depleting the body.

Porn Addiction-

It has been sad to see an epidemic of so many young men in their 30s and 40s having sexual dysfunctions such as inability to get and keep an erection and inability to orgasm or ejaculate with a woman due primarily to overuse of pornography and masturbation. Neurochemically porn is dangerously addictive due to the high levels of dopamine released for a man looking at many new women and it does not have the benefits of Oxytocin which is released in an embodied interaction with a real live woman. A man who watches porn frequently habitualized his system to needing high levels of dopamine and frequent new visual stimulation via many different women in order to function sexually. Additionally, a man who masturbates and ejaculates frequently is training his body to respond and orgasm and ejaculate only with a very specific type of manual stimulation which is hard to reproduce with an actual encounter with a woman. Therefor he can have difficulty achieving and maintaining his erection and orgasming and ejaculating in an encounter with a woman if he has habituated his body to a disembodied solo sexual experience.

Treating Sexual Dysfunction in Men-

For most of these men i recommend abstaining from porn and not ejaculating if possible using tantric or taoist sexual practices for circulating the sexual energy through the body when self pleasuring. Instead of porn i recommend that they use their imagination or think of a past embodied experience. I suggest they try to be sensual with themselves and in their life. Enjoy the sensuality of a walk in nature, eating a good meal, taking a long shower and make self pleasuring a sensual meditation. Touch themselves everywhere and breath and relax and go slow. Savor the journey. Stop before getting to the point of no return and breath the energy through the body using the Taoist Big Draw Practice if possible.

For many men the antidote to sexual dysfunction such as difficulty getting and keeping an erection is to have regular sex with a real live woman with whom they have a positive emotional connection. Tantric practices can also treat this type of sexual dysfunction. The antidote for premature ejaculation are tantric practices which include slowing down and learning how to work with one’s sexual energy. Both men and women can learn how to treat premature ejaculation in men by learning how to consciously work with sexual energy and practicing tantric and taoist sexual practices for full body ecstacy and multiple orgasm.

 


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